The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt

Denomination: Presbyterian Church (USA) (PCUSA)

Carol Howard Merritt  is a writer, conference speaker, and the cohost of God Complex Radio.  

A minister in the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.), she formerly served as a pastor of Western Presbyterian Church, an intergenerational congregation in Washington, D.C. 

Carol's the author of [Reframing Hope: Vital Ministry in a New Generation](http://www.amazon.com/Reframing-Hope-Vital-Ministry-Generation/dp/1566993946/ref=pdsxpfpt) (The Alban Institute, August 2010) and _Tribal Church: Ministering to the Missing Generation, (The Alban Institute, September 2007).

Carol is also the co-host of the Internet Radio Show,The God Complex, with Bruce Reyes-Chow. And she blogs for the Huffington Post.

Photo by Heather Wilson

 

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Blessed Are Those Who Mourn

Thursday September 16, 2010
In her sermon based on one facet of the multifaceted jewel that is the Beatitudes, the Rev. Carol Howard Merritt reflects on how Jesus' words can offer comfort and hope in any time of grief.

Carol Howard Merritt: "I Will Not Leave You Orphaned"

Thursday September 16, 2010
Carol Howard Merritt shows us that Jesus looked at his friends--even the ones who would inevitably betray him--with overwhelming concern and love. We are made in the image of God, and in that image we long for one another. We work with and delight in one another. Our lives are not complete without company.

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The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Exploring the Activist's Toolbox

Thursday September 16, 2010
"When a church or nonprofit group engages in advocacy, when we need to get the message out about an issue like homelessness in our city, there are many things we can use when we put together a strategy." Read on...

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Facemashing Christianity

Thursday September 16, 2010
I often write and speak about the intersection of technology and religion, and so I’m keenly aware of the benefits and the cruelty that can be generated at that crossroads.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: As Any Had Need

Thursday September 16, 2010
A friend of mine realized that she only had one friend who went to church. As someone who cares deeply about the church, she wondered why it was. And so she began to ask them, “Why don’t you go to church?”

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Teach Your Children Well

Thursday September 16, 2010
As the air becomes crisp, and we see the vibrant falling leaves around us, often people of faith turn their attention toward giving. Even while we get caught in the frenzy of holiday decorating and menu planning, we think about how to share the abundance of the year and how to teach our kids to give.

Carol Howard Merritt: Meeting at the Level of the Ashtray

Thursday September 16, 2010
Often when churches are reaching out to people in their twenties and thirties, there is a tendency to expect them to become someone they are not before they walk into the door.... we cannot simply expect people to change who they are in order for them to fit in with us. It’s important to meet people where they are.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Diversity Still Matters

Thursday September 16, 2010
It seems like I have been in the midst of many discussions around diversity issues lately. The contexts have been different: in new church movements, denominational settings, academic discussions, conference planning, and pastoral hiring. The questions and resistance persist.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Advent Whispers

Thursday September 16, 2010
"In this time of Advent, as we’re pregnant with expectation and all of these intense emotions swirl about us, as we long to see God’s reign, as we hope for a just and peaceful world, it seems that these messages are still important." Read on...

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: How Can We Be Revolutionary?

Thursday September 16, 2010
I don’t think that all marketing principles should be whole-heartedly applied to the church. I think many people get exhausted by continuous marketing, and don’t want our congregations to adopt all of those principles that can leave people feeling manipulated and used.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Do Men Want Male Leaders?

Thursday September 16, 2010
“Men are attracted to male leadership. We need more men. We will hire a man so that men will attend our church.” True or false?

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: If Only You Were More Educated...

Thursday September 16, 2010
I always cringe when I hear progressives say, “Well, they just need more education” when it comes to political, sexual, or theological issues. Why?

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Illuminating the Darkness (John 1)

Thursday September 16, 2010
I have watched people take different positions when the church betrays them or their family. They can reject the church altogether. Or they can proclaim that they are “spiritual but not religious.”

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Your Invitation to UnCo

Thursday September 16, 2010
if you’re a church leader, consider this your invitation to the UnConference. It would be lovely to connect with many of you in real life.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Reassessing Motherhood

Thursday September 16, 2010
I’m like so many moms who are fascinated by Amy Chua’s article comparing Western and Chinese moms. As I read her column, so many thoughts swirled around me. Guilt seems to be my most accessible emotion.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Quick Thoughts on Writing

Thursday September 16, 2010
I’m writing a lot right now, but I’m underground. I’m putting something together that will emerge in book form some day… but I’m not one of those authors who can put up her thoughts on a blog while formulating a book.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: How Your Church Can Support the Local Food Movement

Thursday September 16, 2010
Food is at the heart of our practice together. So it's important to remember that what we put on our tables can be an act of faith.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: The Courage to Tell the Truth

Thursday September 16, 2010
Vienna Presbyterian Church (USA), one of the largest and most conservative Presbyterian Church (USA) churches in our area, is seeking forgiveness after the horrifying details of a sexual abuse scandal have come to light.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Being In Need

Thursday September 16, 2010
I like that we have a God who needs””just like a baby girl who is being baptized, just like a grown man who is facing death””we come to this Holy Week knowing that we have a God who needs. And when we realize that, we understand something about the humanity surrounding us.

Carol Howard Merritt: Stranger

Thursday September 16, 2010
Today is the day of my father’s funeral. He died last week. Here’s a sermon that I preached last weekend in Colorado…

Carol Howard Merritt: Reflections on the UnConference

Thursday September 16, 2010
If I had one word to describe the Unconference (#unco11) experience for me, personally, it would be cathartic.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Strap on the Bungee Cord, But Wait to Jump

Thursday September 16, 2010
As we creatively think about the future, we need to come back from the edge of the cliff a bit, and not be so quick to create ministries where we cannot feed our families.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: The Church for the 21st Century

Thursday September 16, 2010
So, I’m heading up a national Presbyterian committee which is studying the Nature of the Church for the 21st Century. We’re asking people five questions....

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Church for the 21st Century: Finances

Thursday September 16, 2010
This is the 2nd part of a series of posts that I’m doing as our denomination explores what it means to be a church for the 21st Century. Many denominations have been joining in, so please don’t feel left out if you’re not Presbyterian.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Church for the 21st Century: Family Structures

Thursday September 16, 2010
While answering “What is your vision for the church in the 21st century?” I’m focusing on a few of the cultural changes that have occurred in the last fifty years. We’ve talked about Work and Finances, now I’d like to look at Family Structures.

Carol Howard Merritt: You Were Good, Amy Winehouse

Thursday September 16, 2010
I still have the song in my head. The haunted voice of Amy Winehouse echoes through my work, as I answer emails and file papers: "You know I'm no good."

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Church in the 21st Century: Ethnic Makeup

Thursday September 16, 2010
Our country is seeing an incredible shift in ethnic makeup, as a new majority emerges. If we can embrace those changes, we can be ready for a vital church for generations to come.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Alisa Harris' Raised Right, a Review

Thursday September 16, 2010
Putting energy into helping one homeless person does not keep you from defending the poor in the political sphere. Loving my daughter does not keep me from fighting for women’s rights.... One action informs the other, and we need to keep doing both.

Carol Howard Merritt: Church for the 21st Century: Transforming Existing Congregations

Thursday September 16, 2010
We’ve set the landscape: we looked at work, family structures, finances and ethnic make-up. Now, we need to ask, what sort of church would work in a new generation? What is our vision for the 21st Century?

Carol Howard Merritt: Negotiating Our Notions of Self

Thursday September 16, 2010
It occurred to me as I was talking about the situation in which many young adults find themselves, that we might need a new definition of selfhood. Right now, it seems that we define ourselves by our independence and our careers.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Pastor as Writer

Thursday September 16, 2010
For three months, I’m immersing myself in the art of letters. It was as if my words needed to breathe and I’m relearning the beauty of the page.

Carol Howard Merritt: What Does Your Spiritual Geography Look Like?

Thursday September 16, 2010
Recently, I discovered a new place in my internal landscape. It came after several rejections. When I was frustrated with a bundle of no’s, I went to see my spiritual director, and she pointed me to something else.

Carol Howard Merritt: God is for us

Thursday September 16, 2010
When first settled down to read Barth, I had to make sure that I had Kleenex close at hand. We read about God the Creator first. The words clinched me, each time I read, “God is for us.”

Carol Howard Merritt: We are Scrappers

Thursday September 16, 2010
A Scrapper is pragmatic. We are people who have learned to work outside of institutional structures in order to get stuff done.

Carol Howard Merritt: Ten Church Models for a New Generation

Thursday September 16, 2010
In some ways, I think of our churches like a crop of corn that was planted at the same time. That field produced corn for 50 years””so much wonderful corn that many of us were fat and happy. In our abundance, we forgot to diversify and plant new fields.

Carol Howard Merritt: Perspectives on the Young Clergy Crisis

Thursday September 16, 2010
One thing that has been difficult to realize (and equally difficult to communicate to the larger church) is the young clergy crisis.

Carol Howard Merritt: Generational Roadblocks to Church

Thursday September 16, 2010
How do we do to signal to a new generation that they're not welcome in our churches? Usually congregations don’t mean to create these obstacles, but that doesn't keep younger generations from seeing them. What are the signals?

Carol Howard Merritt: Love Made Visible: Struggling with the Question of Vocation

Thursday September 16, 2010
In the beginning of our careers, it becomes particularly important to ask, what did God have in mind when God was knitting us together? What is our vocation?

Carol Howard Merritt: Supporting Startup Congregations

Thursday September 16, 2010
I learned in seminary that a church is a place where we proclaim the word and administer the sacraments. I’m now learning there’s another criterion: financial sustainability.

Carol Howard Merritt: Systemic Distortion

Thursday September 16, 2010
Not many people in our denominations would admit to being a racist. And yet, we hear stories of systemic discrimination on a constant basis. What are we going to do about it?

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Planning for a Vital Future

Thursday September 16, 2010
I’m chairing a committee that just finished its initial report for the national assembly of Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.). We were charged with making plans for our common future. Of course, these finding are from our denomination, but I think they’re instructive for most mainline traditions.

Carol Howard Merritt: Of Lent and Love: What I Learned in the Midst of Betrayal

Thursday September 16, 2010
"I saw him in the parking lot with her. I think he wanted to get caught," my mom's hushed voice bleeds with betrayal. Unlike most gossip, this conversation doesn't have the quality of a listener, hungry for salacious trivialities. The whole house feels on edge, as I sit on the couch in an adjoining room, straining to hear.

Carol Howard Merritt: How Do We Find Time for Social Media?

Thursday September 16, 2010
As church leaders, how do we manage our time? Our day is already full, and now we need to do social media on top of it all?

Carol Howard Merritt: Ministry in the Midst of Wounds

Thursday September 16, 2010
Authentic. For the last ten years, "authentic" seems to be a key word for ministers. I’m not sure when the shift happened, but when we work in multi-generational settings, the changing expectations can be palpable.

Carol Howard Merritt: Negotiating New Realities

Thursday September 16, 2010
In our corner of the economy, excellent pastors got fired and many took wage and benefit cuts. In some cases, the congregations didn’t realize that their decrease in membership was a national trend that had a lot to do with shifting demographics.

Carol Howard Merritt: My Puzzling Year

Thursday September 16, 2010
For ten years, I expected my father to die. For those long years, when I picked up a call from my mom, I anticipated devastating news. Dad had those mini-strokes that snuck up on him and addled his brain, and so I balanced for a decade on edge.

Carol Howard Merritt: Living with Two Loves: Bivocational Life

Thursday September 16, 2010
For the last couple of years, I have been a bivocational minister by choice. In other words, I have had a strong, deep sense of call to the pastorate, a place where I have served and loved people for fourteen years, while also nurturing this growing drive to write. I understand the excitement and frustrations of trying to balance. As I thrive in two pursuits, I feel like I’m cheating life.

Carol Howard Merritt: Leading with Bold Imagination

Thursday September 16, 2010
Most people who serve as church leaders realize what an important time it is in our religious landscape. Because of demographic, generational, technological, and economic shifts, we realize that many churches are coming to the end of their seasons. In this important moment, we will need leaders who can experiment, create, test, and plant. Montreat Conference Center interviewed me on this.

Carol Howard Merritt: Leading with Bold Imagination, Part 2

Thursday September 16, 2010
Montreat's Institute for Church Leadership is holding a Leading with Bold Imagination Conference. I'm the conference preacher, so they asked me a few questions.

Carol Howard Merritt: Dealing with Inappropriate Comments

Thursday September 16, 2010
f you’re starting out in the ministry, here are some things that you can do when inappropriate comments are directed your way. These tools should be used for use with verbal, awkward, unwanted situations. If there is a physical touch, a verbal violation, or if you are in danger, the tools should be entirely different.

Carol Howard Merritt: Cultivating a Culture of Love

Thursday September 16, 2010
Recently, I was reading another article that said that the church should be like Apple computers and pastors ought to be like Steve Jobs. But that does not reflect the calling of the church.

The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt: Social Media and Social Change

Thursday September 16, 2010
As Christians who strive for social justice, we know that we need the fast and furious exposure that social media can bring. But we also need the long-term, careful work that takes decades.

Carol Howard Merritt: Constructive Use of Jealousy

Thursday September 16, 2010
I feel much more spiritual when I don’t admit that I’m jealous. It's not an attractive emotion and I’m sure that my shadow side will disappear if I never shine any light on my pettiness. But, somehow it doesn’t work that way.

Carol Howard Merritt: Speaking to the Fear

Thursday September 16, 2010
How do we respond to our anxious culture during this election cycle?

Carol Howard Merritt: The Guts of the Passage

Thursday September 16, 2010
The scripture text is full of emotional content and if we do not pay attention to it, then we’re missing another layer of what God might be saying to us.

Carol Howard Merritt: Progressive Christians Enter the Age of Relevancy

Thursday September 16, 2010
It's been a sobering few decades for Christians who work alongside the poor, claim their feminism, respect scientific discovery, care for the earth, and yearn for marriage equality. We felt like the voice of Christianity had been captured by some strange ventriloquist, and it was proclaiming things that often contradicted our faith. We became frustrated with our own irrelevance, as our speech in the public square seemed to be on permanent mute.

Carol Howard Merritt: Avoiding the Trappings of Power

Thursday September 16, 2010
I wrote that Progressive Christians are entering the age of relevancy, but I hope that we can quickly end our back-patting congratulations and get to work. I also pray that we will not respond to our relevancy by becoming ensnared by the trappings of power. On many accounts, it would be good to learn from the Religious Right and their demise. What happened? Why did they fall into irrelevancy? Can we avoid the same problems? How?

Carol Howard Merritt: Preaching Lessons at a Fundamentalist Bible School

Thursday September 16, 2010
We called it the spring semester, but it felt like the dead of winter to me. The never-ending Chicago cold months slapped me in the face. I juggled my new schedule along my books, when I walked into the classroom filled with women. I was a student at Moody Bible Institute.

Carol Howard Merritt: Religious Hopes for 2013

Thursday September 16, 2010
I'm proud to be a part of a movement whose great concern is learning to love your neighbor as you love yourself. And as we move into the New Year, I hope those voices of justice will grow stronger and I wish for some other things as well.

Carol Howard Merritt: Empowered Women in the Religious Right

Thursday September 16, 2010
What are progressive Christians doing in order to help women thrive in our society? And can we learn anything from the Religious Right?

Carol Howard Merritt: When Patriarchy Trumps Theology

Thursday September 16, 2010
Public Religion Research just came out with a report that says that 64% of evangelicals who say “pro-life” describes them very well oppose stricter gun laws. How can this be?

Carol Howard Merritt: Why Can't We Just Get Another Cross?

Thursday September 16, 2010
When I walk into a space, I automatically imagine how it can be more aesthetically pleasing. As a pastor, my brain often kicked into action: Asbestos tiles and white carpet? We might as well put a sign up that says, "No children allowed." We could surely replace these yellow fiberglass windows with stained glass. We need to paint this wall.

Carol Howard Merritt: It's Not All About Me

Thursday September 16, 2010
One afternoon when I was completely stressed out about some criticism I received from my congregation, another minister took me to lunch. She asked me about the history of the congregation and helped me sort out some of their past traumas.

Carol Howard Merritt: Ensuing Eagerness

Thursday September 16, 2010
What do you think the church will look like in 20 years? People constantly ask me this question””in person, on Twitter, on Facebook. I love looking at generational trends, philosophical understandings and technological developments, while praying and imagining where God might lead us.

Carol Howard Merritt: Orienting Attitudes for the Decades to Come

Thursday September 16, 2010
How retraditioning, innovation, teams and mututality can help us as we face what's to come in the future of the church.

Carol Howard Merritt: Technology and Identity

Thursday September 16, 2010
How do extensions, avatars, anonymity, masks and criticism affect the way we see ouselves in community?

Carol Howard Merritt: (Wo)manifesto

Thursday September 16, 2010
Since Sheryl Sandberg, Facebook COO, has been urging us to lean in, conversations have been buzzing about what it means to be a feminist. I’m always thankful for the opportunity to revisit the question.

Carol Howard Merritt: An Interview about the Next Generation of Church Leaders

Thursday September 16, 2010
On Thursday, April 18, I will be in the Chicago area for Impact 365. If you're in the area, you're welcome to attend! Here is an interview, conducted by Bronwen Henry, one of the event's coordinators and the Managing Editor at New Church Connection.

Carol Howard Merritt: Culture of Violence

Thursday September 16, 2010
This week, we feel the weight and yearnings of those far beyond our pews. We hold the pain of the country, as we pray for the bombing victims in Boston and those who suffer through the explosion in West, Texas. Someone addressed poison-laced letters to our politicians. We fought for sensible gun laws and felt desperate that our congress could not pass the legislation that a majority of Americans support, even after the mass shooting of children.

Carol Howard Merritt: #UNCO13

Thursday September 16, 2010
If you’re a pastor, lay leader, seminary student, writer, academic or anyone interested in working toward the future of the church with action that moves beyond hand-wringing and an institutional nostalgia, then by all means, go to UNCO. You’ll find kindred souls there.

Carol Howard Merritt: Cooking from Scratch

Thursday September 16, 2010
You will do big things. That's not just some sort of pie-in-the-sky commencement lingo. You will be changing Christianity in our country. You know why? Because we've been serving up a lot of Costco lasagna in our churches.

Carol Howard Merritt: Zombie Churches

Thursday September 16, 2010
How do you close a church? When do you start having the conversations?

Carol Howard Merritt: Becca Stevens and the Art of Healing and Truth Telling

Thursday September 16, 2010
Thistle Farms is a social enterprise to create handmade products as good for the earth as for the body. They work with the community and graduates of Magdalene, a residential program of women who have survived sex work, trafficking, and addiction. Hear an interview with her founder, Becca Stevens.

Carol Howard Merritt: Wrestling with Faith

Thursday September 16, 2010
Most spiritual leaders have wrestled with faith. Most of your pastors and most of the people that you look up to have questioned their faith and doubted God. It’s just that when we do it, we call it fancy, poetic things, like, The dark night of the soul.

Carol Howard Merritt: Excruciating Evangelism

Thursday September 16, 2010
I saw the stranger across the crowded room. My eyes were drawn to him like a dog to a raw steak. He looked lonely. I could tell that he needed a friend. I smiled broadly at him. He smiled back, and that was my cue. I walked over to him. My words oozed with kindness as I asked, If you died tonight, would you go to heaven?

Carol Howard Merritt: Redemption: Why Buying a Woman Is a Terrible Metaphor

Thursday September 16, 2010
I wrote an innocuous tweet yesterday. After pouring over commentaries and writing five different sermons and lectionary articles on Hosea, I simply wrote that I wished that Hosea and Philemon were not in the lectionary. My reasoning? I don't like that the books uphold the notions of people being bought and sold as property.

Carol Howard Merritt: Homiletics and Humor

Thursday September 16, 2010
I was at a youth retreat and a senior in high school asked me, Who are your inspirations when it comes to public speaking? I mean, you’ve told us how you felt called by God and how the church influenced you. Who influenced you outside of the church? I said two things: TED Talks and comedians.

Carol Howard Merritt: Guides to our God Complex

Thursday September 16, 2010
I’ve been working with God Complex Radio for over four years, and the readings and conversations never cease to nurture me in my preaching and writing. The guests are amazing. Although I’m regularly told that our conversations make long commutes and housework drudgery bearable, Derrick Weston, Rob Dyer and I have wanted to see these interviews used in other contexts as well.

Carol Howard Merritt: Why Doesn't Anyone Care about Generation X?

Thursday September 16, 2010
Many in Gen X are annoyed that we’ve spent a lifetime living under the looming Boomer shadow, and now we’re getting swallowed up by Millennials.

Carol Howard Merritt: A Bivocational Minister Warns Against Bivocational Ministry

Thursday September 16, 2010
I write, speak, and consult a lot already, but I had a bit of a lull between now and when my next book comes out, so it seemed like the perfect opportunity to jump back into bi-vocational ministry. But, I jump into it with a bit of trepidation, and I think that our churches should have some concern as well.

Carol Howard Merritt: Where Is Occupy?

Thursday September 16, 2010
A lot of people talk about how the Occupy Movement was a flash-in-the-pan media stunt by a bunch of youngin’s who had no organization skills, no leader, and no clear message. And they would be wrong.

Carol Howard Merritt: Why I refuse to use "mainline" any longer

Thursday September 16, 2010
'Mainline' was not a term that denominational leaders came up with, but we have embraced it for many years. Now, it’s a good time to discard it. Why?

Carol Howard Merritt: Women Explain Things

Thursday September 16, 2010
The religious landscape in Chattanooga is interesting. It may be a magnified version of what’s happening in a lot of places. There are many culturally hip churches that are utterly regressive when it comes to women. In our city, the number of PC(USA)’s are in the minority. That means that many Presbyterians in our town don’t allow women to be deacons, elders, or pastors.

Carol Howard Merritt: Mind the Gap

Thursday September 16, 2010
Who will wrestle with the theological and ethical implications of our technology?

Carol Howard Merritt: 10 Challenges for Innovative Church Leaders

Thursday September 16, 2010
Every year, UNCO offers a good gauge to find out what’s exciting and difficult about being an innovative church leader. Here are a few things that I gleaned from our recent gathering.

Carol Howard Merritt: Why Label? Why Not Just Follow Jesus?

Thursday September 16, 2010
For about a month, there has been an ongoing discussion about the term 'mainline.' I posted that I refused to use it because it has historic connections to upper class, white society and doesn’t adequately reflect the diversity of our social justice history. That spurred a number of Internet conversations.

Carol Howard Merritt: Running On Empty

Thursday September 16, 2010
I watched my dad breathing through the tubes in his nose and I heard the machine beeping by his bedside. I found myself looking over at the pulsing line almost as much as I monitored his resting eyes. It reminded me of that children’s book, Harold and his Purple Crayon. I thought about how my father’s brilliant life, all of the accomplishments, hopes, dreams, anger, fear and anxiety had been condensed to that glowing line.

Carol Howard Merritt: Servant, predator, and too-entitled pastors

Thursday September 16, 2010
As grateful as I am for the time and mentorship of some pastors early in my ministry, it took me years to sort out that I needed to consider the source of a lot of the counsel. As a 26-year-old woman, I was dealing with different issues than the pastors surrounding me. Here are some of the things I often hear in ministry, that I’ve had to adjust for my circumstances.

Carol Howard Merritt: Corporations and Religious Freedom

Thursday September 16, 2010
The courts have been inundated by cases from corporations who refuse to provide insurance for contraception based on the religious beliefs of their owners. The Supreme Court will be hearing the cases soon. As a clergyperson, I’m obviously concerned about people being able to have the freedom to practice their faith. Yet as a woman, I am concerned about the health and dignity of people who need contraception. What happens when those two things contradict one another?

Carol Howard Merritt: Image of God and the Little Pink Pill

Thursday September 16, 2010
When the only religious voice is fighting against contraception, we have the hazard of communicating to a generation of women that Christians don't care about their education, productivity, or empowerment.

Carol Howard Merritt: Always Root for the Humans

Thursday September 16, 2010
One of the most fun films I saw this year was World’s End””the final installment of the trilogy that included Shaun of the Dead and Hot Fuzz. While the first two were about zombies and buddy cops, this one was about saving the planet from Stepford-like robots.

Carol Howard Merritt: Alternatives to Becoming an Armadillo

Thursday September 16, 2010
I am sensitive to the unfairness of life. People walk around, go to work, sing hymns, pray liturgies, while tragedies rip up their days. My heart breaks when I find out about the horrible things people do to one another. I become overwhelmed by the worry that people bear for one another.

Carol Howard Merritt: Architecture of Thought

Thursday September 16, 2010
In the past we have had a sort of architecture to our religious thought in the United States. It is being dismantled. But it is also being reassembled.

Carol Howard Merritt: Why I Hate "Hipster Christians"

Thursday September 16, 2010
Hipster reflects a certain age group. When we speak of different generations, we use terms””geezer, hippie, slacker””as pejoratives. It can be a way of belittling people, putting them in another category so that they aren’t taken seriously.

Carol Howard Merritt: Don't Put Down the Camera

Thursday September 16, 2010
As a pastor, I often preach about something and members of the congregation will say, 'You can’t talk about this, get us all worked up, and then not do anything about it!'

Carol Howard Merritt: A Girl's Guide to Getting Men...in Church

Thursday September 16, 2010
According to Matt Hedstrom, our worries about not having enough men in church are not new. They existed even before we women started getting cooties under our collars.

Carol Howard Merritt: Gutting Our Creatives

Thursday September 16, 2010
Where is that iconoclast spirit? We yawn as cheaper, mass-marketed pictures take the place of icons. Jesus smiles from our bumper stickers and T-shirts. Now we trade in Rublev for Sallman, without much protest. If we're going to give up our iconoclast ideals, shouldn't we do it for the sake of decent art?

Carol Howard Merritt: Biblical Themes in 'Mara Dyer'

Thursday September 16, 2010
Those who know me well know that I have a teenaged daughter who speaks most fluently in the language of books. We've always enjoyed stories together, so these days I spend a great deal of time reading teen and YA literature. The latest request was the 'Unbecoming of Mara Dyer.' She wanted to find out who Mara was and thought that we could talk through it.

Carol Howard Merritt: Boomer Denominations

Thursday September 16, 2010
In the years to come, as denominations close churches and plant new ones, we should remember that the churches being planted today also reflect a particular culture of their own. The key will be to celebrate and support differences and interpret them to one another.

Carol Howard Merritt: Money Anxiety and the Ministry

Thursday September 16, 2010
I grew up in the midst of the Prosperity Gospel movement, and it’s left its mark, I’m afraid. I believed that God would bless (meaning financially bless) those who served the Almighty. It wasn’t only that money came with service to God, but financial reward also came with God’s favor.

Carol Howard Merritt: Spiritual Themes in "The Goldfinch" by Donna Tartt

Thursday September 16, 2010
Yesterday, I was removed from the hazy world of The Goldfinch. Though the book is quite lengthy, it felt like it wasn't quite long enough. Don't get me wrong, the ending was satisfying, I just wanted to linger in the rich work that Donna Tartt created.

Carol Howard Merritt: A Niche of Welcome

Thursday September 16, 2010
My good friend has three beautiful children, two of whom are on the autism spectrum. Forcing them to sit through an hour-long service had become too difficult when the community didn’t understand how people of all abilities could worship together.

Carol Howard Merritt: Gratitude to Alban

Thursday September 16, 2010
For a good generation, Alban has been creating books and resources that slip into our common clergy vernacular. When we think of applying of family systems theories, navigating size transitions, being a blessed church, re-imagining faith, creating open-source communities, or (if I may dare to add my work to the Alban classics) reframing hope, we often refer to Alban.

Carol Howard Merritt: What should we understand about generosity in a new generation?

Thursday September 16, 2010
We know about all of the shifts in communication and technology, but there are also huge changes when it comes to giving money. Younger generations often think much differently when it comes to finances and budgeting, and we should think differently as a church as well.

Carol Howard Merritt: Keeping the Church Weird

Thursday September 16, 2010
When we imagine what a church can become, there is one thing that can be a great liability or a considerable asset: the church building itself. It can be difficult to know what to do with the stained glass and soaring ceilings, especially when a congregation needs a new mission and ministry.

Carol Howard Merritt: Feeling Less Than Alive

Thursday September 16, 2010
Yes, a vocation should give us joy, but sometimes the sunshine comes with sorrow and suffering. If we enter into the profession thinking that everyone is going to love us, that every day will make us come alive, that we only get the parts of the job we choose, we’re going about it all wrong.

Carol Howard Merritt: Ministry Myths

Thursday September 16, 2010
In a recent interview, someone asked me, What did you write in Tribal Church that you regret? Is there anything that you would change? The question reminded me of the fact that we’re always predicting and observing things that may not prove to be true a few years later. Here are three myths that I often hear about ministry that I question.

Carol Howard Merritt: Never Pray Again: An Interview

Thursday September 16, 2010
An interview with Nick Larson, Aric Clark, and Doug Hagler on their new book, 'Never Pray Again.'

Carol Howard Merritt: What the retirement of Baby Boomers could mean for the church

Thursday September 16, 2010
If you look around at most denominational meetings, you will see that Baby Boom retirements will have a massive impact on our denominations. Boomers make the majority of those in the pews, in the pulpits, and in power. The first wave of Boomers is in the midst of retiring, so what can we expect? How will this affect us?

Carol Howard Merritt: Birth, Reincarnation, or... What?

Thursday September 16, 2010
My friend, Landon Whitsitt, and I have an ongoing argument about a particular metaphor. When you complete a piece of art””a poem, book, sermon, painting, or (in Landon’s case) song””what is that process like?

Carol Howard Merritt: What are creative ministers thinking about these days?

Thursday September 16, 2010
I returned from UNCO (short for Unconference), an open-space incubator for churches. We wanted a place where creative ministries would be celebrated and supported, and it’s working. We have grown from two new ministries to over twenty. It’s a brain trust for starting progressive communities and sustaining traditional ones. The break-out groups are always interesting, because they give us a taste of what young(ish) ministers struggle with and what they’re excited about.

Carol Howard Merritt: Virtual Real Presence

Thursday September 16, 2010
Now that online community is possible, and people are looking to their computers, tablets, and phones for those sacred moments, how are churches responding?

Carol Howard Merritt: Five things businesses need to learn from the church

Thursday September 16, 2010
I’m not writing a book on the Gospel According to the Fortune 500 any time soon. Do you know why? Because churches have a much more sustainable business model than businesses do.

Carol Howard Merritt: Identity in Transition

Thursday September 16, 2010
I had to have business cards made. It just had to be done. Even if people never use them any longer, they still ask for them. I struggled with what to put on them.

Carol Howard Merritt: Feel Pain. Love Deeply

Thursday September 16, 2010
John Green was enrolled at University of Chicago Divinity School, preparing to become an Episcopal priest. He was doing his CPE (Clinical Pastoral Education), working as a chaplain when he conceived The Fault in Our Stars. The book hit the top of the New York Times bestseller list, and Green didn't go to Div School.

Carol Howard Merritt: Twitter Feed from the Council of Jerusalem

Thursday September 16, 2010
Bags are packed! Camel is ready! Can’t wait to see you all at #COJ1. Woohooo! @Peter @Paul @Simeon

Carol Howard Merritt: Getting Under Our Skin: The Role of Scripture for Progressive Christians

Thursday September 16, 2010
As progressive Christians look to the Bible, we come to the text with the curiosity of people longing to know not 'how,' but 'why.'

Carol Howard Merritt: Fear, Anxiety, and Christian Community

Thursday September 16, 2010
Using fear, when it is already untamed in a person's mind seems (at the least) irresponsible, and (at its worst) close to torture. It can be a very traumatic experience when the adults, who are in charge of your spiritual health, exaggerate that fear in order to manipulate you. So, as spiritual leaders who work with teens and the parents of teens, what can we do? What can we do when we work with adults who have experienced religious trauma as teens?

Carol Howard Merritt: Intergenerational Living

Thursday September 16, 2010
We’ve had family farms. We’ve had family businesses. We have worked and lived intergenerationally for many years. We had a small blip, where independent living became more of a norm, but now it may be time we go back to sharing our homes and resources. Is that such a terrible thing?

Carol Howard Merritt: The Opposite of Homelessness

Thursday September 16, 2010
Hugh Hollowell, a pastor in Mennonite Church USA, began Love Wins in Raleigh, North Carolina, seven years ago. Believing that homeless people need a pastor in their lives, Hugh began to care for people in the park.

Carol Howard Merritt: Writers Write

Thursday September 16, 2010
About three times a week, pastors ask me 1) how to get on the speaking circuit or 2) how to get published. The questions go together, because the answer to how to get on the speaking circuit is usually to get published. Sometimes they are just starting out in the ministry, and other times they are retired. Either way, my answer is the same, no matter what stage of life you’re in: Writers write.

Carol Howard Merritt: Pastors in Poverty

Thursday September 16, 2010
Most of us have seen this coming for a decade, but it’s still startling to read the headlines in the Atlantic: The Vanishing of Middle Class Clergy.

Carol Howard Merritt: Growing Up with Richard Linklater

Thursday September 16, 2010
Watching Richard Linklater's film "Boyhood" reminded me of the beauty of being with people for decades, of watching them change and growing older together. We have seen one another unwind.

Carol Howard Merritt: Selah: Thinking about the People of Ferguson, MO

Thursday September 16, 2010
In the past days, I have been thinking about the people of Ferguson, as their grief and anguish over Mike Brown's murder pushes them to the streets in a longing for justice. And this is when I’m not a very good blogger, because I haven’t responded to anything for over a week.

Carol Howard Merritt: Revived by the Arts

Thursday September 16, 2010
Walking into the sanctuary of Nashville’s Downtown Presbyterian Church reminded me of a revival. The word revival has been used in many different ways in our religious history.

Carol Howard Merritt: Pastoring, Parenting, and Privacy

Thursday September 16, 2010
I recently read 'The Circle,' Dave Egger's dystopian novel about a benevolent Internet company that eerily crept into every aspect of our lives, taking it over, one smiley emoticon at a time. Think about it like this: a company encompasses Facebook, Google, and Amazon, and then it begins partner with the government.

Carol Howard Merritt: Lonely Pastors

Thursday September 16, 2010
There’s no feeling quite as depressing as a line of connection being suddenly cut short. Ministers have this sensation a lot. We’re often lonely in a crowded room. There are reasons for this.

Carol Howard Merritt: Making Your Message Sharable

Thursday September 16, 2010
Often we want our churches to grow, but we're not sure what sort of tools to use. We don't have any sort of action plan to get the word out about our congregations. Of course, word of mouth is still the best way to get people to church, but there are things we can do to make that message sharable. Here are a few steps we can take.

Carol Howard Merritt: Why I Try to Laugh

Thursday September 16, 2010
One of the most powerful forces in any sort of leadership is optimism, and it’s especially important in the church. Setting small goals and being excited about reaching them is crucial. Initiating a new mission, a Bible study, a community garden, or an outreach/evangelism plan and celebrating the achievement is vital.

Carol Howard Merritt: From Temple to Tabernacle

Thursday September 16, 2010
I think about the children of Abraham and Sarah, wandering around the desert for forty years, eating manna while they longed for milk and honey, stumbling over shifting sands while they yearned for the promised land. They had a tabernacle, a dwelling place for God that they set up and took apart.

Carol Howard Merritt: Shame and Guilt

Thursday September 16, 2010
A few weeks ago, Meredith Gould mentioned something on Twitter that made me pause. She was in a discussion with someone else, and I was eavesdropping on the conversation, because that’s what we do on Twitter. She mentioned that there was a difference between guilt and shame.

Carol Howard Merritt: Putting Away the Silver

Thursday September 16, 2010
In her essay 'An Expedition to the Pole,' Annie Dillard writes about explorers who didn’t make it. When their skeletons were exhumed, re­searchers learned a lot about their last days. For instance, many of them tucked settings of silver into their coats. When those adventurers braved the frigid brutalities of the Ant­arctic, they could not imagine leaving behind those elegant and weighty trappings of luxury.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Church's New Foundation

Thursday September 16, 2010
'The church’s best days are still ahead,' said Cam­­eron Trimble. I shared a conspiratorial smile, as I often do when with her. She is executive director of the Cen­ter for Progressive Re­newal, where I am a consul­tant. She was telling me about Con­vergence, a network that she is dreaming up with a group of people, including authors Brian Mc­Laren and Diana Butler Bass.

Carol Howard Merritt: Six important findings about new worshiping communities

Thursday September 16, 2010
My travels this month have been fascinating, because they have allowed me to look at new church movements from the view of a seminary, practitioners, and denominational leadership.

Carol Howard Merritt: Reaching Out or Caving In?

Thursday September 16, 2010
I sat during my first year of evaluations at the church. The personnel committee said, 'We love your work in the church. You’re doing a great job. But what are you doing outside of the church?'

Carol Howard Merritt: 'Mockingjay' and Monitoring Minors

Thursday September 16, 2010
My daughter came home from school””elementary school””reading a book that she absolutely could not put down. Then she starts telling me the plot. 'Kids kill one another.'

Carol Howard Merritt: How "Cafeteria Christians" Survive the Holidays

Thursday September 16, 2010
I often hear the term 'cafeteria Christian.' It is a description of our current religious milieu. People pick and choose what’s important to them in their faith. It’s usually said with disdain””and a bit of eye-rolling.

Carol Howard Merritt: Music That Changes

Thursday September 16, 2010
As I settled into the pew at All Souls Epis­­co­pal Church in Ber­ke­ley, Cal­ifornia, my eyes turned to the crayons strategically placed in the seats as an invitation for the adults to color their bulletin along with the children. I had a strange kid-at-a-birthday-party feeling. I studied the order of worship and realized that the service would mix the expected and the whimsical.

Carol Howard Merritt: It's None of My Business

Thursday September 16, 2010
This week, I was speaking to a handful of strong, smart writers who were on their way to publishing major books, but they were nervous about entering the Wild West World of the Internet. How were they going to handle the criticism they would have to endure?

Carol Howard Merritt: On Being Yoked

Thursday September 16, 2010
Andrew Kort and Mihee Kim-Kort just wrote Yoked, a wonderful book about being a clergy couple. To celebrate its arrival in the world, Mihee invited me--along with other clergy couples--to reflect on our own stories. Please watch Mihee's blog for more stories.

Carol Howard Merritt: What I Learned from a Year of Fiction

Thursday September 16, 2010
Like a lot of my preacher friends, I typically read nonfiction, theology, and fiction classics. So, it was a little different for me to delve into the world of hot-off-the-press page-turners. I did it for a year. This is what I learned...

Carol Howard Merritt: A Woman's Guide to Getting Coffee

Thursday September 16, 2010
I was reading this article in the NYT, entitled, "Madam, CEO, Get Me a Coffee.” And it says a lot of the things that we have been reading and experiencing for decades about women. The workplace responds differently to the ways women work, and especially when it comes to staying late and helping others. This is particularly true for our work in the church.

Carol Howard Merritt: You Are a Preacher

Thursday September 16, 2010
It feels like I’m always constructing my bio. Whether it’s for a 140-character Twitter account, a description for a conference, a display of credentials for a consulting client, or meeting someone for the first time, I am always trying to articulate who I am.

Carol Howard Merritt: On Not Being That Guy

Thursday September 16, 2010
Pastors struggle with alcoholism. It’s not big news to those of us in the profession. Graham Greene's whiskey priest is a very believable literary figure In The Power and the Glory.

Carol Howard Merritt: Bifurcation of the family story

Thursday September 16, 2010
I love this article on raising teenagers by Rachel Cusk. I didn’t at first. During the beginning paragraphs, I thought that it was going to be another generational screed about how teenagers are monsters.

Carol Howard Merritt: Doctrine of Discovery: A Conversation with Mark Charles

Thursday September 16, 2010
A few blocks away from where I live, there’s a lovely green space. Renaissance Park is a revived bit of Chattanooga along the Tennessee River. There’s a walking tour that you can take, where you call a phone number and hear the history of the place. Within that explanation, a soothing voice speaks of how the Trail of Tears began on that piece of land. But, the audio recording goes on to explain, the removal of the Native people allowed us to have a vibrant business district.

Carol Howard Merritt: What the Church Can't Do for Pastors

Thursday September 16, 2010
A friend was going to seminary, and she became very disappointed that someone in her home church did not send her a birthday card. When I heard this story, I thought that the church probably did her a favor, because it’s good to know that there are a lot of things that the church cannot do for you once you become a pastor.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Fear of Irrelevancy

Thursday September 16, 2010
Let’s be honest. Apart from a few oddities, most of us are church leaders because we love God and want to do some good in the world. We want our lives to matter. And perhaps that’s the scariest thing of all.

Carol Howard Merritt: Competition, Coattails, and Colleagues

Thursday September 16, 2010
I was talking about an author I admire and Brian, my husband, asked, 'Her writing’s great and all, but who’s she bringing up?'

Carol Howard Merritt: Deconstructing patriarchy, one ritual at a time

Thursday September 16, 2010
There might be a reason our ceremonies having the feel of a real estate transaction. The Bible has many passages that see women as a husband’s property. Of course, 'her price is far above rubies,' but why is she wearing a price tag in the first place?

Carol Howard Merritt: Reorienting Grief

Thursday September 16, 2010
There were a lot of interesting people on the Pastors’ School faculty. Gene Fowler was among them. He lead us through grief training, pointing out the difference between modern and postmodern ideas of grieving.

Carol Howard Merritt: Church with a Clean Slate

Thursday September 16, 2010
"What happens if we just cleaned the slate?" Sara Shisler Goff asked, describing the origins and mission of the Slate Project. "What if we had a blank slate for being and doing church?"

Carol Howard Merritt: Just Buy the Book Already

Thursday September 16, 2010
Can I show you what’s behind the curtain for a moment? Progressive Christian authors are suffering. It’s difficult to sell books and it’s hard to get book contracts.

Carol Howard Merritt: There is more than one history in the South

Thursday September 16, 2010
Lately, when I travel and explain that I'm from Chattanooga, Tennessee, I get one response: 'Oh. The South. It’s so racist down there. How can you live there?'

Carol Howard Merritt: First rule of stewardship planning? Have fun

Thursday September 16, 2010
I love raising money. I just do. The churches I served had healthy increases in giving, and I oversaw a successful capital campaign. It’s really fun for me.

Carol Howard Merritt: Missteps in church planting

Thursday September 16, 2010
I spoke with ten church development pastors, including people I have written about before and a couple who closed their community as a consequence of what they did wrong.

Carol Howard Merritt: Five Liberal Excuses to Do Absolutely Nothing

Thursday September 16, 2010
The person has been robbed and beaten. He’s bleeding on the side of the road. Unlike the Good Samaritan, we step over him. But we have really great reasons for why we do it.

Carol Howard Merritt: Misfits in the Suburbs

Thursday September 16, 2010
When Bec Cranford-Smith grad­uated from seminary, she figured she would go to Atlanta and start a congregation in the urban center. But Margaret Aymer at Austin Pres­­byterian Theological Sem­inary challenged her: 'Why go to the city?' Aymer asked. 'There are enough new churches there. Why not plant a church in the suburbs, where you’re from?'

Carol Howard Merritt: Pastoral Care--How Much Is Too Much?

Thursday September 16, 2010
I served two small congregations who wanted a lot of pastoral care. Which was good, because I love people, and I love visiting with them. But it did get to be too much. Smaller churches often expect visits more than larger ones.

Carol Howard Merritt: Money Advice from a Scrapper

Thursday September 16, 2010
Recently a friend came to me for financial advice. I was stunned, because... well... we don’t have money. We have a home. We have equity. We have retirement savings. We have a plan to send our daughter to college. But, our day-to-day lives are lean. There have been a couple bountiful years here and there, but for the most part, we have to be careful. Why ask the person with no money for financial advice?

Carol Howard Merritt: Overcoming the Culture of Nice

Thursday September 16, 2010
I grew up as a good evangelical girl, and nice was a very high priority. The highest, I think. I was told to smile and submit, with all sincerity. But one of the greatest things to ever happen to me was reading feminist theologians who extolled the virtues of getting angry.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Pastor's Search for Meaning

Thursday September 16, 2010
I’m re-reading Man’s Search for Meaning. The last time I read it was when I was in seminary. I skimmed it for a course. It had a profound effect on me then, but it’s been good to soak it in this time around.

Carol Howard Merritt: Multicultural Life Together

Thursday September 16, 2010
Since New Covenant welcomed people from different cultures, it couldn’t rely on traditional Presbyterian hymno­dy to be a source of cohesion. And the church was evenly divided between conservatives and liberals, so it didn’t agree on political issues or on the hot topics with which the PCUSA wrestles. So the church has had to focus on relationships.

Carol Howard Merritt: Purity and what does it mean to be good?

Thursday September 16, 2010
Someone recently questioned my feminist credentials, when I picked up Jonathan Franzen’s new novel, Purity. Upon further investigation, I found out my cross-examiner was harboring the book as well.

Carol Howard Merritt: Back at the Burning Bush

Thursday September 16, 2010
Friendship began when six churches of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.), located within a five-mile radius in northwest Chicago, met with one another to see if they could collaborate. All were struggling to maintain big buildings.

Carol Howard Merritt: How Do We Get People to Church?

Thursday September 16, 2010
Attendance is down at church. At most places, there is a lag at Sunday morning services, Sunday school, or mid-week programs. It’s not just your church. It’s most churches. It’s easy to blame outside forces.

Carol Howard Merritt: Actually We Have Plenty of Money

Thursday September 16, 2010
Is that new church planter working less than the big-steeple pastor who’s getting six figures? No, not usually. But the planter is getting paid minimum salary, while the large church pastor is making 2-3 times more.

Carol Howard Merritt: Diana Butler Bass on 'Grounded'

Thursday September 16, 2010
Unlike some of her past work, where Diana stands on the mountain, giving us a broad overview of spirituality in our current landscape, this intriguing and beautiful book invites us to participate deeply in God’s work from the ground level.

Carol Howard Merritt: Creating Versus Consuming

Thursday September 16, 2010
If you asked me what I wanted to do when I was a child, I would have answered that I wanted to be a writer, an artist, or a pianist. (I didn’t know that pastor was an option.) I’m a person who likes to make things. Christmas decorations, gardens, prayers, photos, food, books, paintings…whatever””what the thing is doesn’t matter much. I must be producing something.

Carol Howard Merritt: In Praise of Gossip

Thursday September 16, 2010
I used to get a phone call every Monday morning. 'I just wanted to let you know what's being said,' the caller would begin, and my body would tense as if preparing to be punched. Then, I would get the rundown of every complaint that people had about me.

Carol Howard Merritt: Gaining Confidence

Thursday September 16, 2010
Is it a lack of confidence or does society simply undervalue women? Do women really just need to lean in?

Carol Howard Merritt: Evaluating Evaluations

Thursday September 16, 2010
Businesses are rethinking annual reviews. Should churches do the same?

Carol Howard Merritt: Leading Like Lydia

Thursday September 16, 2010
Do women plant churches differently than men? Do they use different methods or a different style?

Carol Howard Merritt: What makes a group effective?

Thursday September 16, 2010
A friend went to UNCO (short for Unconference) to see how it worked. She had been a part of numerous 'future of the church' conferences who paid the best and the brightest speakers and leaders to impart their wisdom. Everyone attended and talked about how the church was changing.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Literary Pastor

Thursday September 16, 2010
South Louisiana is “a place that produces writers the way that France produces cheese””prodigiously, and with world-class excellence.” Tennessee Williams, Kate Chopin, Walker Percy, Ernest Gaines, John Kennedy Toole, and Truman Capote””you could hardly pastor while ignoring their words.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Grace of Small Things

Thursday September 16, 2010
Gathering in coffeehouses, huddling in homes, working around gardens, or converging in church basements, new church communities have sprung up across the nation. They have different means of social cohesion, focused variously on social justice, creation care, art, reading, or music, but most of them have one thing in common””their small size.

Carol Howard Merritt: Churches That Are Short-Term But Vital

Thursday September 16, 2010
Perhaps when we plant congregations, we should plan on starting two congregations, realizing that one will probably be long-term and the other short-term. Above all, we can support colleagues when a church closes, celebrating and mourning with its pastor and participants. We can honor how wrenching it is to walk away from a dream and respect the learning that takes place.

Carol Howard Merritt: How to Write a Book

Thursday September 16, 2010
Increasingly, people ask me, “How do you do what you do?” They want to know how to become a writer, speaker, or consultant. I wouldn’t be a speaker or a consultant if I didn’t write a book, so I’ll start with how to write a book.

Carol Howard Merritt: Dying to Leave a Legacy

Thursday September 16, 2010
What happens when our congregations are in transition? What happens when the church's ministry is something we have to get out a rearview mirror to see? What if we suddenly foresee the end of our life together? Do we give thought to dying well as congregations?

Carol Howard Merritt: Who Watches the Watchmen?

Thursday September 16, 2010
I began hearing the question in seminary. It became louder as I started writing. 'Who will be the next Reinhold Niebuhr?' In 1948, Niebuhr was on the cover of Time Magazine. He commented on politics, and since his death in 1971, his voice has been missing from popular discourse.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Stewardship Opportunity

Thursday September 16, 2010
Through prayer and discernment, First Church realized that the congregation’s ministry had been focused inward””it maintained buildings, protected endowments, and cared for members. While this was important work, people had neglected the call to stretch themselves in new ways. It was only when they could no longer keep doing business as usual that they looked outward.

Carol Howard Merritt: Learning to Be Wrong

Thursday September 16, 2010
I was working with a group on racial reconciliation, and I felt frustrated. I mostly listened, but then every time I spoke, the words coming out of my mouth were all wrong. And I’m a type-A, liberal, PC, white woman. I don’t like to be wrong. I like to 'get it' and secretly roll my eyes at other wrong people.

Carol Howard Merritt: The Great Power of Nostalgia

Thursday September 16, 2010
In our churches, people long for the time when going to church was the center of a town’s social life. Mothers got to dress up after a week of housecleaning, fathers made professional connections, and teens met the people they would soon marry. The sanctuary was full, and everyone understood the importance of Sunday school.

Carol Howard Merritt: New Rituals for New Realities

Thursday September 16, 2010
Pastors Eliza Buchakjian-Tweedy and Nick Larson have been thinking about the rituals of the church and how they might mark the life passages of people who follow a different life sequence. They wonder how the church can celebrate neglected milestones and grieve suffering that was once private but is now public because of social media. These new events take on a communal significance, so Buchakjian-Tweedy and Lar­son write liturgies and create rituals for them.

Carol Howard Merritt: Taking Risks to Heal Hurt

Thursday September 16, 2010
As the people at Grace Presbyterian worked toward a robust public theology, identifying the wounds of the culture and needs of the community, the form of their expanded ministry began to take shape.

Carol Howard Merritt: In Praise of Institutions

Thursday September 16, 2010
Many people in my line of work are anti-institutional. I am not. Even though my mission in life is not to save the institutional church (it is to love God and people, first and foremost), I believe in institutions.

Carol Howard Merritt: Three things to know before starting a church

Thursday September 16, 2010
I talked with a group of innovative pastors and members of governing bodies who support new churches. My question for all of them was, 'What do we all need to know before entering into this work?'

Carol Howard Merritt: How should we respond to new media?

Thursday September 16, 2010
Can we begin to incorporate the best practices of social media? Can we become more adept at incorporating social media into our larger plan as we hold propaganda machines accountable?

Carol Howard Merritt: Shared space, shared vision

Thursday September 16, 2010
In Asheville, one church was dying while another was being born.

Carol Howard Merritt: #Blessed

Thursday September 16, 2010
Will young men and women from middle and lower class backgrounds be pushed down with medical and educational debt? Will they see the military as the only option for education, health, and opportunity?

Carol Howard Merritt: Slaying the Monsters

Thursday September 16, 2010
Theological issues might be “settled” for us, but there is a big world out there that needs to hear our voices.

Carol Howard Merritt: An enduring narrative

Thursday September 16, 2010
We are called into liberation””a freedom that sees not our value as consumers but the dignity inherent in our humanity.

Carol Howard Merritt: A call to death

Thursday September 16, 2010
One gift of being a pastor is that death stands right in front of us. We understand that our days are numbered.

Carol Howard Merritt: Gratitude for the poppies

Thursday September 16, 2010
We cannot always create something out of nothing. Rather, we change what already exists, and these tiny alterations give us meaning and purpose in our lives.

Carol Howard Merritt: Drifting into the flow, without a brain hack

Thursday September 16, 2010
Our culture will continue to replace traditional religion with other services that attempt to provide the same thing.

Carol Howard Merritt: What will make us better humans?

Thursday September 16, 2010
As I think about all of the complex questions we have ahead of us concerning downsizing, restructuring, property, and buildings, I’ve begun to have one guiding question.

Carol Howard Merritt: Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, can you save us from being hot messes?

Thursday September 16, 2010
My daughter and I were watching 'Marvelous Mrs. Maisel' when Midge Maisel pulled out her measuring tape and began to write down the size of her ankles, calves, and thighs. While she checked her proportions, we laughed at the ridiculousness of it.

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The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt - Day1 Conversations with Peter Wallace

Thursday September 16, 2010
The Rev. Carol Howard Merritt sits down with Peter Wallace for a wide ranging interview focused on her church in Washington, DC, her new book, and her view on youth and new media in the church.